Earlier today, I saw this really cute girl waiting at the bus stop. When I turned back I could still see her waiting at the bus stop but still didn’t do anything cuz I got the bitch butterflies and kept making up excuses not to go in. I always regret not approaching girls afterwards but I’m always too afraid to do it when I’m in the moment. Why I’m I like this?
I need help in bantering, how to do it. My approaches mostly go straight into rapport after a direct opener. I’m missing the bantering and I know it will make my approaches much deeper and stronger. What are some examples of bantering?